Connect With Your Audience Before and After Your Presentation

Learning how to connect with your audience is an important tool to succeed as a presenter. When we stand in front of a group we focus on keeping the attention of our listeners. What about connecting before and after the presentation? Find some suggestions below how to communicate with your audience beyond the actual presentation.

Connecting starts before the presentation:

When you write your speech, keep the audience in mind. Visualize who will be there and even better if you know some of them already, imagine John, Mary, Peter’s face as if you were speaking to them in person. Start to connect by asking yourself:

Who are these people?

Create a picture of your audience: are they young, old, active, involved in nature, people, technology, mostly male or female, single or married etc.

What do I know about them?

Do some research: check websites, associations, communities these people belong to and find out what interest them. For example if you speak at an annual convention, check the organization’s website or call the company to find out if they had some important news you should know about e.g. a ten year anniversary, opening of the first office abroad, an award they won etc.

Why should they come and listen?

What is the main objective for your audience? Will they learn something new? Are you there to present a new product or service? Are you a motivational speaker to uplift the energy in the room? What ‘gift’ will they receive from you? What is in it for them?

What do they know about the topic already?

Are you the first to address this topic? Who has spoken before you in the program, who comes next? What information was available to the audience before they entered your room. What is the level of understanding? These questions should be directed to the organizer or your main contact who hired you to do a presentation. Also at your office, check if you tuning in to the right level of knowledge.

What is my intention?

What would you like to offer them? Do you want to persuade them, inform them, make it easier to make a decision, start a discussion? Connect with your own objective and link it to the audience’s objective. Feel if your purpose supports their needs.

Create an emotional connection

After your research and writing your speech. Close your eyes, take a few deep breaths, center yourself, sit comfortably with a straight back and concentrate on your audience. Try to picture them, the room, the way you present and imagine how they feel: excited, tired, curious? See yourself giving an excellent presentation and that people are smiling and expressing their gratitude. Feel how good it is to be of service. Feel that you care for them and that your presentation will benefit them. While staying connected with this loving feeling, take a few breaths and open your eyes. Try to repeat this as often as you can before the presentation is due. It will feel as if you know everyone already which will create an intimate atmosphere.

Create a physical connection.

If there is a possibility before your presentation starts, stand at the door and shake hands with your audience and make them feel welcome. If time allows ask them some short questions to show (genuine!) interest e.g. “How was your flight?”, “Did you have a chance to see the city?”, How do you enjoy the program so far?” etc. If you are speaking to a large crowd you can do this on stage and address the whole group with a few questions to create a connection with the people in the room.

Connecting after the presentation

When you finish your presentation:

-Thank the audience out loud and from your heart.

-Tell them about the follow up if applicable: where will they find more info, when is the next meeting, presentation or update?

-Send slides and information as promised: add something personal if you can that reflects on the speech, person or event.

-Send answers to questions you did not know during meeting and promised to answer later.

-Send an evaluation form or even better ask them to fill it in straight after the meeting (arrange with the meeting planner).

-Connect with yourself: what went will that you’d like to repeat next time and what would you like to change about your presentation? Did you research make a difference, did you feel you were on the same wave length?

-Connect with the organizer to offer your services again.

When preparing for a presentation start to connect with your audience, during the presentation stay connected and after the presentation round off the connection. Connect through the heart and you will have success!

Choosing a Mothers Day Present for Your Grandma

One of the most rewarding holidays of the year is mothers day, a chance to give a little something back to our mum and let her know that we’re thinking about her and thankful for all that she has put up with from us. With that special day fast approaching it is perhaps time to consider what we can do to thank our mothers and grand mothers this year, for me it will essentially revolve around spoiling them both. For my mother and the kids grandma the day will usually begin with breakfast in bed and some initial gifts to get the ball rolling. From there, the day revolves around them and as much as they like spending time with the grandkids I think it’s better if they have time to relax and as such I usually book them a pampering session at the local beauty spa.

My main concern however is that this may be getting a little predictable and as such I want to really surprise grandma this year and I’ve been thinking along the lines of extra special gifts for grandma. My fiancee suggest a family photograph and whilst I think this could be a good idea, due to various circumstances the entire family wouldn’t be able to make it this year, however one thing that did spring to mind is perhaps a family history box. These genealogy reports come in various shapes and formats however one thing that I know about my mother is that she does love being a bit of a detective so I think ideally what would make the perfect gift would be something that would provide the basics and allow grandma to investigate further at her own pace using various online and local library type resources.

The more I thought about this, the more I realised this would make the perfect gifts for grandma and provide her with not only something fun and challenging to complete in the short term but would also provide a lasting image and indeed knowledge that would not only be useful now, but hopefully could be passed on down through the various generations of our family. All in all I think this could be one of the better gifts I’ve came up with and my fiancee certainly agrees, indeed we plan on providing similar gifts for both of our mothers and the kids grandparents this year and certainly is a present that is rather unusual and different from the norm. For me it certainly beats the annual trip to the health farm!

Freelancers and Entrepreneurs — Let’s Examine Our Present and Recently Past Influences

What are the influences that are either helping or hindering you in your business and personal life? By making ourselves aware of them, we are more likely to work toward positive changes. In this article, my goal is to get you to examine your present and recently past influences.

The people we know, work and play with. Yes, we are heavily influenced by the people we let into our lives. If we hang out with negative, critical, complaining people, we can easily lose our enthusiasm and drive. If we join groups and make friends with those we want to emulate, we will be on our way. It is just like tennis and chess. The way one gets better is to play with someone who is better than we are. I am not suggesting that you drop the friends you have now, but I am suggesting that you join groups of winners, network with people who are known as successes and volunteer for worthy causes.

Life-long learning with books, tapes and magazines. It is astonishing to find out how few people read a book after graduation. I am sure that none of you reading this article would fall into that category. However, I must mention the wonderful scope of topics available today in book form, the plethora of tapes that inform and motivate — I listen and re-listen to tapes by Brian Tracy, Jim Rohn, Earl Nightingale and am always influenced to take a new action step toward success.

Visit your public library. It offers a wealth of influence — I always use my driving time to listen to tapes and CDs. In addition, there are almost too many magazines to read. I have found that the best way to benefit from the great information is to scan and then only read those articles that pertain to some part of my business or life. No matter what your specialty is, there are magazines that address your problems and situations.

Physical activity and a focus on health. One of the strongest influences on my well-being, business acumen, and energy level is daily exercise and sensible nutrition. Studies have shown that there are so many side benefits from regular exercise and proper eating that one could easily fill a wall with post-it notes listing them.

By pushing oxygen to the heart and brain, we keep both healthy and smart. If you are having a difficult time getting started, I suggest finding a buddy to go to the gym with you or work out with you. In the fitness classes I teach, the people who participate have become friends and they cheer each other on — another positive influence.

I ask you again, what are the influences in your freelance living? Are they helping or hindering your progress? What new and better influences can you and will you embrace in the future? What bad influences and toxic companions are presently draining you of your energy and passion for living?

It is time to make two lists — one with the bad influences (past and present) and one with the good influences. Congratulate yourself on the good influences and continue to pursue them. On the list with the bad influences, add an action step and a new influence to replace each one. Take action and you will be on your way to success!